tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32153073386382445322024-03-13T01:13:46.337-07:00Anna's Girly Gossip LoungeAnna Pescardot is author of several chick-lit ebooks.
This blog is about all things chick-lit from relationships to fashion.Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-79453146910180209062013-07-09T08:54:00.003-07:002013-07-09T08:54:58.801-07:00Hi there<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi there guys,<br />
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I thought I'd update my blog. It's amazing how quickly time goes by. So many things in my life have changed since this time last year.<br />
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I just thought I'd update you on what I've been doing...<br />
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I haven't been writing any more fictional eBooks. I just haven't had time and, if I'm honest, I've had a little bit of writer's block too. I am hoping to write another short comedy novella; however, I've been writing short non-fiction books on various subjects (under a different name) and I've been doing some freelance writing work to help pay the bills!<br />
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I've found that I really enjoy doing the freelance writing work as it means I can do what I love all day - the only problem is that I don't get time to do my own projects, but writing is writing, I guess.<br />
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When things slow down a bit, I am going to start my next rom-com. I'll keep you updated on this.<br />
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Thanks again for being so patient with me. I really should update this blog more!<br />
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Bye for now,<br />
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Anna x</div>
Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-78533528662599399532013-01-07T02:49:00.000-08:002013-06-05T02:06:48.861-07:00What is Young Adult Fiction, anyway?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi Guys,<br />
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I read an article recently about Young Adult books taking on a rather disturbing format, which has been dubbed, "Sicklit". You can read the article for yourselves by clicking on this link - <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2256356/The-sick-lit-books-aimed-children-Its-disturbing-phenomenon-Tales-teenage-cancer-self-harm-suicide-.html">http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2256356/The-sick-lit-books-aimed-children-Its-disturbing-phenomenon-Tales-teenage-cancer-self-harm-suicide-.html</a>.<br />
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As you may be aware, I prefer to write humorous books but, more recently, because I felt like a change, I wrote my paranormal romance/horror trilogy aimed at young adults 15 and over. This trilogy contains some adult themes, but I don't think they are any worse than what is in the Harry Potter books, yet I now feel my books seem mild in comparison to these "sicklit" offerings that the newspaper article mentions. <br />
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I have a conscience though, and that is why I have put a warning on my books, stating that they shouldn't be read by anyone under 15; however, how can I be sure that nobody under age is reading them? That is my dilemma.<br />
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I suppose the same can be said for the internet and television in general. I guess children have always wanted to delve into the forbidden adult world; I know I used to watch Hammer horror films when I was 13!<br />
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As I have had several issues with some of my eBooks in my paranormal trilogy not appearing on some of the retail sites, I have decided to put them all into one eBook instead. It is still the same price for the one book as it was for all three so, if you have already bought one, or even two, then you will not pay any more for buying the new compilation.<br />
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I also wanted to remind you that I do also have a more light-hearted eBook available, which is currently free from most online retailers.<br />
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Bye for now,<br />
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Anna x<br />
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Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-69107907020144107812013-01-01T06:31:00.001-08:002013-06-05T02:08:45.554-07:00Happy New Year<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I would like to wish all of my readers and friends a Happy New Year. I have vibes that this is going to be a great year. I don't know why; it's just a weird feeling I've got. Last year was pretty good: we had the Olympics, the Jubilee and the country came together in celebration. <br />
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I think the best way we can all make this year great is to be respectful to each other, and to help others whenever we can. I try to do this all the time, and I think the world would be a much better place if we all treated others as we wish to be treated.<br />
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While I'm here, I would just like to apologise to any readers who were trying to find the second copy of my "Souls Apart" trilogy and were disappointed. I only recently found out that Barnes and Noble weren't stocking "Demonized" - the second book in the "Souls Apart" trilogy, and when some readers tried to find it on Amazon, technical problems meant that it was the first book uploaded and not the second. I apologise for any disappointment and urge readers to send it back to Amazon if you have got one of the faulty copies. I also urge readers to email me if you have any issues with any of my eBooks, because it is my intention to entertain people and not cause problems for readers! I have uploaded it again on Amazon and this should have rectified the issue but, if you do want to read it, I suggest you try a sample first and this way you can check that the technical problems are resolved before you purchase a copy. I have also let Barnes and Noble know that they aren't stocking my book and so, hopefully, this will be resolved before the end of the week. Fingers crossed!<br />
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I do intend to write more books this year; however, due to moving house, I have had other priorities and so it will probably be toward the middle or end of the year before I have something ready to publish.<br />
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I hope 2013 brings you lots of great things and I will try to update my blog at least once a month to let you know where I'm up to with my next eBook.<br />
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Take care,<br />
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Anna x<br />
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Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-43609775314010190372012-09-01T07:24:00.001-07:002013-06-05T02:10:45.098-07:00It's September!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi all,<br />
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I can't believe it's September - my birthday month is here again!<br />
I just wanted to let you all know that I have finally published the concluding installment to my Lost Souls Triolgy - "Final Cut". I apologise for the delay. I'd hoped to have it ready for Spring, but so many things have happened to me this year, I just didn't get round to it and I have vowed never to publish anything that I'm not happy with.<br />
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To celebrate its release, I have made the first book, Souls Apart, free on Smashwords and this will hopefully filter through within the next week or so to itunes, Barnes and Noble and the Smashwords distribution sites. It won't become free on Amazon unless readers click the link to tell them they've seen it cheaper elsewhere. So, if any of you wish to download it to your kindles via Amazon, it would help me if you would do that, as I don't like charging for books I've made free everywhere else. It's just Amazon currently doesn't let writers make books free unless they are part of the KDP select program.<br />
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I hope you will enjoy September. I am going to be working on a new set of shorter YA novels, although I don't have plans for any more trilogies, just yet. I have enjoyed writing shorter stories, because I feel that the new digital market lends itself to shorter stories, rather than longer novels. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I feel readers of ebooks would rather buy cheaper and shorter books; I know I certainly do when I'm looking for a new kindle ebook.<br />
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Thanks for reading and I hope you continue to enjoy my books,<br />
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Love Anna x</div>
Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-32437109478874666892012-08-07T03:48:00.000-07:002013-06-05T02:14:45.640-07:00Why are some people so annoying!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi all<br />
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I just wanted to get something of my chest...WHY ARE SOME PEOPLE SO ANNOYING?!!<br />
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Phew - that's better. I just wanted to let you know about a recent experience of mine. I was selling my old heap of a car on ebay and, weirdly enough, I had over 30 people watching it, and I was inundated with offers from people wanting to buy it without waiting for the auction to end.<br />
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Like the little miss goody goody I am, I turned down those offers because I wanted to play fair and let the auction run until the end, so whoever won the bid would win fair and square and everyone would be happy. <br />
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All was going to plan until the winning bidder turned out to be a total time waster (and looking at his feedback from other sellers, this was one of the nicer things he's been called) and so I'm still stuck with my car, and I've lost my listing fees and so my whole ebay experience was a total waste of time and it's left me wondering what sort of person deliberately bids on items they have no intention of buying. Why, Lord, Why?!!<br />
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It's like internet trolls. Why do people do it? Have they got something missing in their lives (or in their brains, perhaps?)<br />
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Oh well, I just wanted to have a little moan about annoying people and warn people about some of the pitfalls of using ebay. <br />
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I will be off on my hols this Saturday, and so I will be chilling out on the beach and hopefully I will come back with a newfound sense of calm for my next blog post.<br />
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Enjoy your holidays everyone.<br />
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Bye for now<br />
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Anna x</div>
Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-22251079486129251312012-06-04T10:36:00.000-07:002013-06-05T02:12:49.920-07:00Useless Warnings<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi all<br />
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I am aware that I have been neglecting this blog, in favour of my other blog, Callie's World, again!<br />
I thought I'd post today about something that really annoys me - it's Health & Safety gone mad!<br />
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Have you ever noticed, when you've opened a box of eggs, the stupid warning - "Warning - contains Egg." Agghhh! Help! I didn't realise! OMG! What am I going to do? You get the point?<br />
I know it bloody well contains egg - that's what I wanted it to contain. How stupid have you got to be to not know what an egg is, I mean, come on...<br />
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And the list goes on... written on a bag of peanuts the other day, I saw this notice..." Warning, contains nuts." -Agghhh! I know it contains nuts! I'm not stupid - rant rant rant!!!<br />
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Anyway, I was thinking about these useless warnings, the other day, and I decided that it might be fun to put warnings on some of the following...<br />
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1) Unreliable men - "Warning - contains a two-faced, lying cheat."<br />
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2) Spanx - (I thought that this particular warning would benefit men) - "Warning - contains mounds of loose flabby flesh - remove at your peril."<br />
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3) Coffee flavoured revels - wouldn't it be great if they could warn us which ones are the disgusting coffee ones?<br />
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These are all I could think of, so far. I would love to hear yours.<br />
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I would also love to hear from anyone who didn't realise that boxes of eggs contained egg, or packets of peanuts contained nuts - there must be someone out there, or why else would they put it on the packets, lol!<br />
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Anyway, Enjoy the long weekend,<br />
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Anna :-)<br />
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Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-53021797352507652402012-04-01T08:38:00.001-07:002013-06-05T02:17:44.019-07:00Here comes Spring<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi all,<br />
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It's April, the sun is shining and the birds are singing! I am suddenly aware that the months are flying by and I've not been updating this blog enough, as I've been concentrating on my other blog, Callie's World.<br />
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I thought I'd update you on what I've been up to: firstly, I've been working as a tutor of adult literacy, numeracy and ICT, which has kept me busy during the day. In fact, it's been keeping me too busy, as it's so stressful with all the papwork we have to do, that I'm too exhausted to do anything else when I get home.<br />
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I haven't been doing any writing, except for my other blog. I am in the process of looking for another day job, so I've been doing a lot of online courses to help me prepare for a career change. I thought I'd let you know about a great website I found. It has tons of free courses from Microsoft office packages, to psychology. It's called Alison.com. Why not check it out?<br />
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Once I'm feeling ready to start my next book, I will let you know. It will be the last book in the Lost Souls trilogy and, after that, I want to go back to writing another romantic comedy. I am also considering becoming a freelance writer, as I would love to write website content and blog posts for other people, as the only thing stopping me updating this blog so much is my day job!<br />
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Enjoy your Easter break. I read in the Daily Mail recently, that chocolate keeps you thin. Yay! All the more eggies for me then. :-)<br />
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Love,<br />
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Anna x</div>
Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-41279511417732143432012-01-25T11:50:00.000-08:002013-06-05T02:19:09.321-07:00January Blues<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi all<br />
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How's it going? Sorry I've not posted for such a long time. I've been focusing mostly on my other blog. "Callie's World." I just wanted to apologise to anyone who reads it every Friday, for not posting last week. It hasn't been the best start to the year and last week was the worst week so far, because I had a car accident on the Monday and then on Wednesday my internet at home went down and it has only been put back on today now that a new router has been posted out.<br />
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I've decided to spend tonight catching up with all the stuff I usually do, including updating Callie. I'm also going to publish a trilogy, which is a little bit different to my usual chick lit style comedy and more of a darker paranormal romance. I've written two of the books and will publish them soon and I aim to start work on the third book this month.<br />
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I wish everyone a happy, healthy and prosperous 2012.<br />
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Bye for now<br />
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Anna x<br />
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Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-71212211716011016822011-11-01T11:30:00.000-07:002013-06-05T02:20:45.857-07:00I can't believe it's November<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello guys,<br />
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Where has this year gone? Is it only me who thinks it has flown by so quickly I've not had chance to catch my breath? Strangely enough, now that November is here, I feel as though I can breathe for a while and prepare for the hectic holiday that is Christmas! I've just started a new day job; tutoring adults instead of children, for a change, and although I've only been there for two days I'm loving it. I've never liked a new job before - it's always taken me a while to settle in, but I've enjoyed my past two days very much and I have my fingers crossed it will continue. As long as it does, I will be able to start writing a new book, hopefully. I am aiming to publish "Callie's World"extracts into a free book and then start working on a new chick lit romance.<br />
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I am also going to try and continue with Callie's World; however I may have to cut it down to two updates a week instead of three. I'll keep you posted.<br />
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Anyway, I was conscious that I'd been spending a little too much time updating Callie and neglecting this blog.<br />
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I hope everyone enjoyed Halloween as much as I did. People made such an effort with the decorations this year, and some houses had sound effects and everything - it was great!<br />
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Anyway, I am going to end here and I look forward to writing my next post on a special subject, a bit like the killer shoes or horrible bosses post.<br />
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Bye for now and thanks for reading,<br />
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Anna x</div>
Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-65480720379907063272011-10-11T10:57:00.000-07:002011-10-11T10:57:29.820-07:00Callie's World<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi guys<br />
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I've just been told that sometimes when you click on the "Callie's World" tab it isn't automatically redirecting to the link page I created. I don't know whether it's because it is a new template blogger has just designed.<br />
Anyway if you want to read Callie's world and it isn't redirecting you just type in www.chicklitsoap.blogspot.com and you will be taken to my other blog where I write Callie's World updates.<br />
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Bye for now<br />
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Anna<br />
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Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-28684508274972236022011-09-06T02:16:00.000-07:002013-06-05T02:28:07.494-07:00Killer Clothes<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi Ladies,<br />
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I was thinking, the other day, after almost twisting my ankle whilst wearing my wedge-heeled shoes, that some of the things us girlies wear are downright dangerous! Here is my list of killer clothes items and why they are dangerous.<br />
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1) <u>Slippers</u><br />
The name says it all. The worst offenders are the ones with no ankles in them, you know, the ones with fluffy tufts around the toes and nothing around the heel area. These offenders like to slip off your foot at the worst times, such as when you are on your way downstairs with a pile of ironing. They also like to try and maim you when you are walking on laminate flooring carrying a hot mug of tea. The next in line are the huge, but comfy, novelty ones which are shaped like Homer Simpson's face or big fluffy bunnies. They may look sweet and innocent, but beware, they too will try to throw you off balance if you're not careful. They're so squishy they enjoy crumpling up and throwing you forward as they crumple up underneath your feet, usually when you're on your way downstairs.<br />
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2)<u> Killer Shoes</u><br />
There are various types of these around, and as the average woman has 36 pairs of shoes in her wardrobe, then most women will own at least one pair of these murderous items. Here is a list of the most violent offenders: wedges, stilettos, kitten heels, platforms and wooden shoes with leather straps (I won't mention the trade name for these, but you'll know what I'm referring to if you own a pair -whoever designed these must have been some form of torturer in a past life). Each of these pairs has a different MO (as they say in the police force). Wedges and platforms like to suddenly twist your ankle to the side, attempting to break it, usually when you are stepping down from the pavement, ready to cross the road. Kitten heels, like slippers, tend to slip off your foot sometimes, and they also like to wedge themselves in small cracks and grids, hoping you will pull a muscle or tear a ligament as you attempt to free yourself. Wooden shoes with leather toe straps like to suddenly twist to the side so that your tender foot scrapes itself on the sharp wooden edges. If you're lucky you'll end up with a few splinters - worst-case scenario - tumbling down the stairs, legs akimbo and shoes flailing after you.<br />
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3) <u>Knickers</u><br />
How can an innocent pair of knickers (or panties, for those of you in the USA) be dangerous, you may wonder. Well, if it happens to me then I'm sure it happens to you too. Sometimes they tend to lodge themselves in awkward places, and they like to remove themselves from your cheeks, preferring to move around into very uncomfortable places, shall we say. This tends to happen at the worst moments, like when you are driving. I can't tell you how many times I've swerved my car whilst attempting to dislodge an uncomfortable knicker/panty situation. And as for thongs, don't get me started on those things - why would somebody choose to wear something that feels just like an uncomfortable knicker situation?<br />
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4) <u>Bras</u><br />
I wouldn't say these were the worst offenders. If they were a criminal (or felon if you are in the USA, right?) then they would be a first offender or ABH rather than outright murder. Their preferred form of attack is when their under wiring becomes loose and digs into your ribs, attempting to puncture your lungs (I know I'm exaggerating a little here, but when it happens it really does hurt - especially if you are in public and have to put up with it digging in for a long time!) They also like to twist their catches, so they dig in your back. Sometimes their straps like to dig into your shoulders too, causing sore and red areas.<br />
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5) <u>Jeggings</u><br />
It isn't surprising these modern items are going out of fashion already. They look great, don't they? It's like wearing tight jeans without the hassle of dieting to fit in them, right? Wrong! Jeggings like to give you a sense of false security - they hold everything in, and you look great as you step out of the house. Five hours later and you are in pain from the pinching in your belly, as the unforgiving waistband digs in. Don't let the elasticity fool you - there's no give in those things! After you've had a few meals and some drinks, these items are so unforgiving. Their waistbands enjoy pinching you and you can't even undo your zip or buttons to ease the tension. It's such a relief when you take them off and realize you can breath again.<br />
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6) <u>Short, flared skirts (skater skirts)</u><br />
These offenders like to kill you by making you die of embarrassment. There are two main ways they can do this a) They can blow up, showing all the world your knicker situation at the most inappropriate times (although any time they do this is inappropriate, right?). It doesn't even have to be a windy day; they still manage to find a way to do this and b) They like to stick into your tights or knickers, so the world gets to see your bum cheeks as you walk down the street. They have a strange way of doing this without you feeling a draft, so you don't notice until some brave person comes up to tell you about it.<br />
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So there you have it. If you have any others you would like to add to the list just put them in the comments box. If you are a man reading this, then I hope you can sympathize with us poor girlies who have to suffer in the name of fashion.<br />
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I hope you found this amusing.<br />
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Bye for now<br />
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Anna x<br />
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Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-24826966851917689962011-08-08T05:26:00.000-07:002013-07-09T08:44:11.068-07:00Why are men so obsessed with young women?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi all,<br />
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I read a newspaper article recently; it was discussing a blog written by a woman calling herself "Plankton". She uses this name because she believes she is at the bottom of the food chain when it comes to men. Having suddenly found herself single in her forties, she has noticed that single men her age either want women their own age or much younger women. She feels ignored and lonely. I felt so sorry for this woman, but it also got me thinking; if men on internet dating sites are asking for women under 40, they are potentially cutting themselves off from some great dates. For instance, if you are a man reading this, who would you rather date, Elle Macpherson - a model in her forties who, most people would agree, still looks great for her age, or a young twenty-something with three children by three different fathers who has a cigarette in one side of her mouth and a pork pie stuffed into the other half. She swears, drinks a lot and wears tight leggings which highlight her podgy thighs and allow her muffin-top (that's belly flab in case you haven't heard the term) to spill over her waistband. You can get a great view of it swishing around, because she also likes to wear cropped vest tops, which also reveal her tattoos. So men, would you rather have the twenty year old or the woman in her forties now, eh?<br />
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There are going to be some older women who take care of themselves and look great and, even if you think the description of the twenty year old I've described above is over the top, believe me, I've seen plenty of young women in my local shopping mall who fit this description perfectly.<br />
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I hope that those men who advertise for young women get one of the women I see in my local mall - it will serve them right for being so picky!<br />
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Remember, age is only a label; it has no bearing on the individual woman - you are as old as you feel!<br />
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I hope this blog post has got you all thinking!<br />
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Bye for now,<br />
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Anna x<br />
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Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-88843889208849916292011-07-21T07:41:00.000-07:002013-06-05T02:34:48.395-07:00Horrible Bosses - Is there any need?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi guys,<br />
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I saw a clip from the new movie, "Horrible Bosses" and it made me remember some of the horrible bosses I've had the misfortune to work for. And, let me tell you, there were so many I could write more than one book about them. I'd like to discuss today possible reasons why bosses are horrible. I believe there are four main reasons. Please feel free to add more in the comments box though, if you think I've missed something important. My reasons are as follows:<br />
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a) They are just plain psychotic. (I remember reading a newspaper article about this a couple of years ago; it said most bosses were psychopaths. Could this be a case of strange, but true?)<br />
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b) They are jealous. (They might not appreciate you coming in each morning with a huge grin plastered on your face, blabbing on about your gorgeous hubby and angelic children, when they've spent the morning yelling at their husband and trying to drag their teenage son out of bed.) The green-eyed monster is not a nice thing (and neither is the blue-eyed or brown-eyed monster, who happens to be your boss).<br />
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c)They hate their job. (I have come across this a lot. I think most of my horrible bosses fall into this category. The truth is, they hate their job so much but, because they've got bills to pay, and there aren't many other jobs around, they are forced to stay and shout at you all day; making your life a misery gives them something to look forward to.)<br />
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d) They are scared. (That's right, the evil presence in your workplace is actually scared of you. They're scared you're better than them, and that if they don't put you in your place and tell you how inadequate you are, that you'll steal their job from them.)<br />
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And there you have it. I just want to say that if you are a boss and you're not horrible then I hope you haven't been offended by this blog post. If you are a boss and you are horrible, then I'm sure you have other more evil things to worry about. If you are your own boss then please be nice to yourself.<br />
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If you have enjoyed reading this then why not follow @horrible bosses on Twitter. <br />
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Until next time,<br />
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Anna x<br />
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Anna Pescardothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04890762460397975144noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3215307338638244532.post-21466841543026977822011-07-04T10:35:00.000-07:002013-06-05T02:37:44.117-07:00Are you still his love-goddess?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi guys,<br />
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Today, I want to talk about relationships (nothing new there then, lol!) and why us girls stay with men who've stopped treating us the way we deserve to be treated.<br />
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I mean, the guy must have liked you at some point, otherwise he wouldn't be your boyfriend in the first place, but why are you still with him when he is treating you like an old piece of chewing gum that's lost its flavour? Below are some signs that you are no longer his love-goddess. If you spot any I suggest making a quick getaway before you end up like an old-worn out shoe that he gave his dog to chew.<br />
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Signs you are no longer his love-goddess.<br />
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1) He doesn't answer your texts, your emails, your facebook messages, your phonecalls and you see him cowering in his living room when you knock on his door. Take the hint, girlfriend - he is scared stiff of you and would rather hide behind his settee for an hour, with a cramped back and a painfully full bladder than let you into his house. Your current status in his eyes = stalker. Your real status = too bloody good for him, that's what!<br />
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2) When you start moving closer for a cuddle he jumps up out of the chair as though you've just set him on fire, and tells you he just remembered he needs to get the mince out of the freezer (or some other similar weird excuse). Your current status in his eyes = frumpy (I'm sorry, but it's true. You may be wearing your sexiest underwear and everything, but he doesn't want to undress you to see it! He sees you as something comfortable and familiar. Quick exit time. Find someone who appreciates you while everything is still firm and wrinkle-free. Your real status = too bloody good for him that's what!<br />
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3) You're out together, but he keeps checking his mobile phone facebook page, is constantly sending texts to his mates (or other girlfriends - he won't let you look at his phone, so who knows?) and when he isn't doing this he's eyeing up other women. I know this sounds obvious that he isn't interested, but it's surprising how many women put up with this nowadays. Your current status in his eyes = boring (well,that's what he thinks otherwise he would be having an interesting conversation with you, or putting his tongue down your throat.) Your real status = too bloody good for him, that's what!<br />
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4) He arranges to meet you for a date and then phones beforehand to tell you he can't make it because he's either a) seeing his mate because his girlfriend's dumped him and he's upset, b) he has to work overtime (sometimes this may be genuine, check the other signs to make sure) or c) he's tired (he couldn't even be bothered to come up with an excuse here, so quick exit needed.) Your current status in his eyes = burden. Let's be honest with ourselves here - he doesn't want to see you - he's putting other people first. Your real status = too bloody good for him, that's what!<br />
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I hope you have got the message girlies - you are too bloody good for him! Make a quick exit and find someone else while everything's still in good shape!</div>
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